還在保溫箱的四千金

最近開始準備要送我們家的四個寶貝去上幼稚園了，很多小朋友第一次上學通常都會有 Separation Anxiety 分離焦慮. 我想我們家的四個也應該會有同樣的問題。經過與園長的討論，我們決定讓她們四個慢慢的適應。先陪讀一三五，每天兩個小時，當她們習慣了然後試著離開一兩個小時。當她們可以與我們短暫的分離再把時間拉長。對學校與四千金都是好事。一次要收四個兩歲多的小朋友對老師應該是會辛苦點，因為當她們一個哭，其它三個應該會一起哭吧。因為我們家的四千金從出生到現在每天都有我們陪伴著，很少有人能夠替代我們，原因很簡單，因為一次要帶四個真的不容易。

這個禮拜在陪讀的過程中，看著她們四個可以跑，可以跳，最近又會唱歌跟做鬼臉發現她們已經開始長大了。這讓我想起她們還在保溫箱裡的時候。或許separation anxiety 最嚴重的會是我們。過去這兩年多一直陪伴著她們，其實她們離不開我們，而我們也不能沒有她們了。我們的四千金已經和我們成為無法分開的一體





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  1. MMSJuly 23, 2013 at 12:19 AM

    爸爸的中文也很好啊 :)

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  2. quadsdadaJuly 26, 2013 at 1:57 PM

    還好啦。

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  3. AnonymousAugust 12, 2013 at 8:32 AM

    爸爸，這太感人了

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  4. AnonymousAugust 12, 2013 at 8:50 AM

    好感動，看著看著眼眶就含淚了。
    用心照顧四千金的爸爸媽媽好偉大。

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  5. AnonymousAugust 12, 2013 at 8:53 AM

    看著最後媽媽抱著四千金的畫面，同為人母的我熱淚盈眶，感動啊

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  6. AnonymousAugust 12, 2013 at 11:14 AM

    感受的到媽媽好多好多的愛~><~，感動!!

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  7. AnonymousAugust 12, 2013 at 10:05 PM

    看的我都要哭了!太感人了爸爸。。。好慶幸當初的決定，你們選擇了四千金，寶貝們也選擇了你們，今生彼此擁有相伴足已！

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    1. quadsdadaAugust 12, 2013 at 10:35 PM

      每天看著她們一點點的長大，我們也很開心，也覺得當初的決定是對的。

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  8. AnonymousAugust 13, 2013 at 12:58 AM

    好感人

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